Unwanted-ness

Our guest today from YOU VERSION opines the state of feeling one is unwanted is the worst disease of humankind. I hope you will read and ponder. Particularly in this Season, what can you and I do to help someone who may be struggling with ‘unwanted-ness’? (Please share, if you will, some of your Christmas plans this year to exalt the LORD JESUS by loving others.)

PARTNER POWER

God formed families to give people closeness. The deepest hurt man can know is to have no one to love and no one who cares. An experienced social worker says, “I have come to realize that it is being unwanted that is the worst disease that any human being can ever experience. For all kinds of diseases there are medicines and cures, but for being unwanted. . . I don’t think this terrible disease can ever be cured.” We who know Christ realize that He can provide warmth and friendship. Still, we need human companionship. Thus, an important purpose of the family is to provide human warmth, touch, and friendship. In that closeness, we develop strength.

There is great power in partnership. God gave us each other to strengthen one another. Husbands look at life with a different perspective than do wives. Wives see things that husbands overlook. The way Abigail was able to cool David’s anger is an excellent illustration of the way men and women complement each other (1 Samuel 25). The wise husband listens to his wife, and the wise wife hears her husband.

Even the cynical writer of Ecclesiastes recognizes the power of partnership. He says: There is one alone, without companion: He has neither son nor brother. Yet there is no end to all his labors, Nor is his eye satisfied with riches (Ecclesiastes 4:8).

via Draw Near – 365 Guides to Greater Intimacy with God | YouVersion.com.

And before I close for today. Something that made my eyes happy in Tennessee.

My Brother’s Horses

My Sister’s (in-law) November Rose

A Joy-full day to you, dear Friends,

Blessings of Joy and Peace,

Onward

Our official celebration of Thanksgiving is behind us; now it is onward to Christmas. Our visit with my brothers and family was relaxing and fun. Just what I needed. Two years without seeing my siblings had been too long!

This morning I am bringing a guest to you. My You Version devotional reading this morning is right on the money. :)

A HEALTHY CLIMATE

The home must provide a climate in which love, trust, honesty, and security can flourish. If it does not, then all the material things parents provide have no meaning and actually make children frustrated and angry.

Trust and tenderness are fragile things. They cannot survive battering and bruising. For a person to love, he must give himself to another; if he is betrayed or taken advantage of, he will withdraw in pain and anger. God has structured the home so that all family members may learn to give their love without being hurt or taken advantage of. The home helps us develop those Christ-like characteristics God wants us to have. It is most significant that when God sent His only begotten Son into the world, He was careful to place Him in a healthy and godly home. If we want our children to fully realize their potential, we must provide the emotional climate to help them do so.

Of all God’s creatures, the human needs the longest time to grow up. A cat is a kitten for a relatively short time. Likewise dogs, birds, and other animals need only a short time to mature. Yet, God in His wisdom has ordained–not months–but many years of growing and learning before the human being can be put in full control of himself. And that’s what family life is all about: helping our little ones learn to control themselves.

Well, my friends, laundry, the grocery store, and more awaits me! Blessings of joy and peace to you today.

ABBA, thank You for a just what we needed celebration with family and friends. And now that we are back to life routines, I pray we will do them with a greater eagerness so that we will exalt JESUS. I pray our Christmas preparations will be holy and prepared with joy. We are remembering the grieving; this season often brings bittersweet memories; You know that well and You are able to empower and bring peace in the midst of them all. Thank You, ABBA. I pray we will lean on You. So for every Reader and Pray-er who comes to visit today, I pray for peace and growth of love and devotion for You and others in JESUS name.

18 I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, 19 and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe.   . . .

via Ephesians 1 NASB – The Blessings of Redemption – Paul, an – Bible Gateway.

Blessings of Joy and Peace,

 

Well, Folks

I have to share another posting with you today.  It comes from the Senior Pastor, Ray Jones, of the Ridgecrest Baptist Church in Dothan, Alabama.

Here is his letter:

A Letter to My Daughter

On the day following the recent election, I shared a letter at our Wednesday evening service that I wrote to my daughter and her fiancée to help give them some perspective. Since then I have received so many requests for a copy that I have decided to reprint it here… please know as I said on Wednesday, this is my letter to my daughter and it may not represent your thoughts, but at the request of many here it is…

November 7, 2012

Dear Karis and Luke,

Today we all awoke to another one of those moments in a nations destiny that may forever change our life and the generations to come. The affects may be a ways out, but they will certainly come. During my 53 years of life, I have watched our nation move further and further away from the very principles upon which it began. I have seen it steadily move from defining what is right and wrong based upon the moral absolutes of a Judeo-Christian standard, to defining what is right and wrong based upon the subjective opinions of the cultural ideologues. Its like America has become Romans 1.  I am reminded of Judges 17:6 that says, “In those days there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.”

The French Historian of the 1800’s Alexis De Tocqueville who visited America to discover what made her great said it was her churches, because they produced both industry (a work ethic) and morality (a transcendent basis for right and wrong). He also said… “In a democracy, people get the government they deserve.”

I have lived long enough to watch our nation move to a place of less and less personal responsibility and more and more dependence upon the government to feed, clothe and medicate us from our birth until our death. We have become much like Israel had become in Isaiah 28:15 “Because you have said, ‘We have made a covenant with death, and with Sheol we have an agreement, when the overwhelming whip passes through it will not come to us, for we have made lies our refuge, and in falsehood we have taken shelter.'”

British lawyer Alexander Tyler who lived in the late 1700’s and early 1800’s said, “A democracy will continue to exist up until the time that voters discover that they can vote themselves generous gifts from the public treasury. From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates who promise the most benefits from the public treasury, with the result that every democracy will finally collapse due to loose fiscal policy, which is always followed by a dictatorship.”  And our founding father Benjamin Franklin said, “When the people find that they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.” He went on to say, “Those that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither safety nor liberty.” Both the words of De Tocqueville and Franklin now seem eerily prophetic.

It is hard to understand how a president can preach personal discipline and personal responsibility to the multitude, as this one does, while enabling with, policy and practice, a greater and ever increasing kind of dependence upon the government to take care of irresponsible behavior such as sexual promiscuity, covered by abortion; by creating more government jobs to make unemployment numbers look better and thus adding nothing to the economy but actually further draining it; by expanding food stamps and welfare to more than 50 million people without any stipulation or motivation to work, and essentially demanding those that do work must pay the bill; and by relaxing illegal immigration in order to increase the party’s support. And this all to the great joy of both this administration and its party because of the dependence it creates upon them and thus the power it enables in them.

In my life I have studied a bit about socialism and have visited in several socialistic nations and I can tell you socialism never ends well… look at Greece right now.

Yet, these things should not surprise us, we were told to expect it in 1 Timothy 4 and 2 Timothy 3. With all that being said, here is what I really want you to know. It is that, this afternoon I have prayed for the two of you and for your future, that God’s grace, mercy and favor would rest upon you. That no matter what your future may hold, that you would hold on to God. God has always preserved a remnant… He may be giving us the government we deserve, but that doesn’t mean He is not still on His throne or that His moral standards have changed. So look to Him, you’ll never be disappointed, as it says in Psalm 34:5 “Those who look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed.” Keep on walking right even if the world goes mad!

I may not be a rich man by this world’s standards, but I am immensely rich because of the trust that God has placed in my life… a wonderful church family, a wonderful wife and two treasures, you and Luke. No one is prouder of their daughter and son to be than I am! I love you both and I leave you with these words from 3 John 1:4 “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”

Love You,

Dad

 A good evening my Friends,

Kathie